Date & Location:
March 19-25, 2023

CREATIVE House, Southern Tenerife, Canary Islands, Spain

(with opportunities, upon request, to arrange customized additional vacation time through our Canary Islands Travel Experts @Your Team Retreat)

All-Inclusive Retreat
Create the vacation of your dreams with your partner while learning about the purpose and journey of being in a committed relationship.

Cost: €3900

Early bird rate € 3700 prior to Feb 17th

Create the Vacation & Relationship Of Your Dreams

Spend a week in your own private unit overlooking the Atlantic. Come be nurtured by wonderful food and stunning surroundings while you put your energy into your relationship and integrate what you have learned in non-workshop related activities.

The purpose – to create the vacation of your dreams with your partner while learning about the purpose and journey of being in a committed relationship. Enhancing and deepening your communication early on in the retreat is designed to invite a more conscious and connected experience as you explore both your relationship and the island.

The signature Getting The Love You Want Workshop – runs throughout the week with opportunities to integrate the material you are learning into non-workshop-related activities.
  • 7 nights of private accommodation in the magical CREATIVE HOUSE
  • All meals: breakfast, lunch, and supper
  • Yoga classes for our attending couples, and other on-site opportunities to engage, relax and enjoy the premises.
  • Full day and 1/2 excursions to local landmarks and adventures catered to the experience level of participants.

Meet your guides Anna & Tim

Tim & Anna met as graduate students in 1987. It was at a Halloween party when they first laid eyes on each other. As with most romantic relationships, it was their similarities which appeared to draw them together. Discovering early on their shared love of reading, movies, long hikes, music, and family connections, they had a wealth of interests and values to discuss.

In 2008, 20 years into her counselling career, Anna was inspired by a wise mentor to explore IMAGO therapy. With her existing passion for helping relationships heal and grow, becoming a certified IMAGO therapist ignited a new and exciting next phase of her practice journey.

When Anna was required to attend a ‘Getting the Love You Want’ workshop as part of her certification process, Tim agreed to join her for both the experience itself and to demonstrate his support of her enthusiasm for this work. From that point on there was no turning back.

In 2014, they attended The Workshop Presenter’s course in Toronto, recognizing that Tim’s passion for and experience in adult education was an ideal complement to Anna’s therapeutic background. They have been engaged in co-facilitating Getting The Love You Want workshops, and developing further related programs ever since.

The Workshop

Getting The Love You Want

Based on the book of the same name by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, this workshop is delivered internationally with Replenish Relationships (Anna & Tim) offering English language only programs in Southern and Northern Ontario, and Canary Islands, Spain.

The workshop is designed to ‘meet’ couples wherever they are in their stage of relationship. It is renowned for its positive impact on any couple who wishes to enhance their connection, build a more meaningful, conscious relationship, repair hurts and resentments, learn how to interrupt their core fight and change the pattern, or simply build a more meaningful relationship.

This engaging and powerful workshop is both experiential and educational in nature. It is commonly considered equivalent to 3-6 months of regular couples’ counselling. A main focus of the workshop is to teach couples Imago communication techniques, specifically the intentional dialogue, which is at the core of all IMAGO work. All couples have many opportunities to learn and practice within the safety and privacy of their own ‘couple-ship’.

Itinerary

On the day of arrival we will be gathering together in the evening for a ‘welcome BBQ’ and meet the group with icebreaker activities.

Workshops: Learning, Enhancing and refining the dialogue process / Deepening connection through experiential learning and exercises

Excursions: Paella Making / Guided hike and Dining / Connected Guided Activities / Kayaking, and more.

Note: Should you wish to stay on the island longer, our partners @yourteamretreat are available in advance to support you in extending your stay with accommodations, car rentals and support/suggestions in making additional plans.

Arrival is March 18th and departure can anywhere from March 24th through March 25th late morning.

Day 1

Rich Learning Program

Day 2

Full Day Workshop

Day 3

Full Day Excursion

Day 4

Half Day Workshop/Excursion

Day 5

Half Day Excursion/Workshop

Day 6

Optional Excursion Day

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between the workshop and therapy?

The GTLYW workshop is an intensive (though fun) workshop which takes up most of one full weekend. It is often considered equivalent to 3-6 months of regular couples’ therapy. Couples learn new and effective communication tools, and discover at a deeper level why conflict and disconnect occur and what to do about it. During this workshop the facilitators do not spend time with each couple helping them to navigate the uniqueness of their situation. The amount of information shared in the workshop cannot easily be offered in private therapy. In addition there is a profound positive impact which occurs through meeting other couples and understanding the universality of the challenges of being in a committed partnership.

Couples’ therapy can precede the workshop, come after the workshop (or neither or both). IMAGO therapy allows a couple to work privately with a certified IMAGO therapist in order to deepen their understanding of their unique dynamic and relationship. The therapist acts as a facilitator to support the couple in meaningful dialogue to ‘unpack’ their stories, and increase their compassion, understanding and empathy for one another. Typically couples therapy occurs over a period of time…weeks, months and sometimes even years.

Will we have to share what is private about our relationship?
The workshop is not a group therapy experience. While there is lots of evidence to support the value of group work, sharing of intimate information is not required. You will have the opportunity to share how you met, along with some of the positives about your connection. Participants regularly note that while they were anxious in anticipation of a ‘group’ experience, the value of learning alongside others far outweighed these concerns.
Is there a different or separate workshop for same sex partners? Or those who don’t identify as non-binary?
Some workshop presenters do offer same-sex-specific workshops. While Anna & Tim originally intended to do this, they have received feedback that all couples, regardless of orientation, identity, and relationship partner, have felt welcome at their workshops. If you do wish to participate in a same-sex specific workshop, you can visit Imago Relationships North America and search for these. There are some wonderful presenters offering these workshops listed there.
What is the ideal stage of relationship for taking this workshop?
The short answer is “any stage at all”. The longer answer is that depending on the stage of the relationship you are in, you will likely absorb or relate to some parts of the material more than others. This workshop is designed to walk you through the various stages of a relationship in order that you can understand where you are, and how to become increasingly relationally competent! So, whether you are six months into a relationship or have been together for 40+ years, you are welcome and will experience benefits.
Would this workshop be helpful for marriage/committed relationship preparation?

Definitely! One of the components of this workshop is learning the skill of dialogue. Dialogue allows for deeper and more productive communication. All committed relationships require the fundamental and often ignored skills of communication. You will leave this workshop understanding what has drawn you together, and how to navigate a healthy relationship moving forward. Having excellent communication skills will serve you well as you pursue a healthy and respectful life long love together.

My partner is very reluctant to attend with me, do you have any suggestions regarding how to encourage them?

We recognize that there is often one partner who is more keen than the other. We also know that as long as one person in a relationship is experiencing challenges, these need to be addressed. Often the reluctance to attend a workshop has to do with worry about privacy, and the anxiety about being in a ‘group’ setting. You will not have to share any of your relationship details in this workshop. This is a confidential and safe setting. Consider conveying to your partner that you have their back, that you won’t reveal anything that they do not want you to and that you will work privately in your own ‘coupleship’ unless, together, you agree that you do want to share something. Learning in a group setting is one of the most powerful ways to grow. It is wonderful to note the way in which the shared experience of participating in a group workshop helps others to feel ‘normal’ in their struggles, worries, patterns of behaviour etc…

Register for “Get The Love You Want”

Step 1 of 8

Contact Information

Name
Partner Name(Required)